Start by watching where your buddy already settles. A favourite corner, a quiet room or an elevated perch can tell you more than the latest accessory. Build on that preference and make the space easy to reach, comfortable and predictable.
For dogs: a familiar place to unwind
Choose a spot away from busy walkways, with comfortable bedding and drinking water nearby. Some dogs prefer quiet; others relax best within sight of the family. Leave enough room to stand, turn and stretch. Remove loose cables and small objects that could be swallowed.
Your dog should be able to enter and leave freely. If an appropriate crate forms the den, secure its door open. Introduce the retreat before a busy gathering or noisy evening, so it already feels familiar. Keep it welcoming: never use it as punishment or pull your dog out. Each dog in a shared home needs their own resting option. [1]
For cats: a hide, a view and a way out
Offer both concealment and a comfortable lookout. A sturdy cardboard box on its side, a familiar carrier with bedding or a stable perch can provide choices without a shopping list. In a home with several cats, arrange retreats with escape routes so one cat cannot trap another. Spread resting places through the home.
Food, water, litter trays, scratching areas and resting places should be suitably separated. Give cats access to resources without having to pass a housemate who blocks the way. Keep perches reachable; lower steps or ramps can help a cat with limited mobility. [2]
Make it a household habit
Show children and visitors where your buddy rests and agree to leave them undisturbed there. For dogs, this is an explicit part of keeping a den secure and welcoming. [1]
Let a cat approach people when ready and move away when they choose. When welcoming a new cat, a quiet starting room with their essentials gives them a manageable place to settle. Familiar bedding can help the room feel less strange. Keep interactions calm and allow exploration at the cat’s pace. [3]
Change one thing gently
Cats benefit from familiar surroundings and a reasonably steady daily routine. Introduce new arrangements gradually where possible. Keep feeding times consistent while offering safe novelty through play and objects to investigate. An empty cardboard box can be an inviting place to explore before it is recycled. [4]
When hiding changes
Hiding is normal cat behaviour, but a cat who hides much more than usual may be stressed, in pain or unwell. Keep the retreat available and arrange a veterinary check. Avoid repeatedly coaxing them out; watch their appetite, drinking and toileting too. [5]
Try this at home
- Watch where your buddy chooses to rest.
- Check that access and escape routes stay clear.
- Give each animal an accessible retreat.
- Make quiet rest a shared household rule.
- Review the arrangement as age, health or household circumstances change.
Use these prompts alongside the dog and cat guidance above. A useful space is one your buddy can comfortably choose and use.
Sources & further reading
General educational information, based on the sources below. Your vet can assess your own animal and advise on care. Source links open in a new tab.
- Dogs Trust — How to build a den for your dog (opens in a new tab)
- AAFP/ISFM — Feline Environmental Needs Guidelines (opens in a new tab)
- Cats Protection — Cats and children (opens in a new tab)
- PDSA — How to create a cat-friendly home (opens in a new tab)
- Cats Protection — Cats hiding (opens in a new tab)
Sources checked 29 October 2026.
